Whatever her reasons were for saying what she did, you can’t move forward unless you talk about it. If these other guys were so wonderful, why did she choose you and stay with you for all this time? They are exes for a reason. I’m sure she’ll feel terrible because she probably was drunk and people do say things when they’re drunk that they’d never say sober.īut whatever she’s comparing you to, the fact is that your marriage has lasted 30 years. First of all, you have tell her what you overheard and explain how much it has hurt you, and that you don’t know how you can come back from it.
